Life with two children: Gideon updates
12:05
"I need a wee"
Took him to the toilet.
"Daddy, my tummy hurts"
Gave him some medicine
"Do you want to be in pyjamas or just straight back to bed?"
"Back to bed"
And then he closed his eyes.
12:20
Thundering footsteps "Daddy, I feel sick"
Told him to go to the toilet. Kept him company, got him a bucket.
He wasn't sick.
Persuaded him to take the bucket to bed.
Sat on the floor next to his bed until he closed his eyes.
12:35
More thundering steps
"Daddy, my arm and leg hurt"
By the time I'd found him medicine he was asleep again.
But woke up again and let me give him some Calpol.
03:30
"I'm hungry" (not surprising as he didn't eat yesterday)
We agreed on cream cheese crackers.
He ate ⅘ of the cracker and drank some juice and passed out again.
06:30
"I checked the light coming under the curtain and it's morning time"
I told him to go play games on the Switch downstairs.
Fifteen minutes later I could still hear him wandering about and I hadn't heard any game noises.
Went to check on him and he told him that he'd found various points around the house where the floor isn't flat.
Got him settled with the Switch, and then went back to bed and stared vacantly at my phone for an hour, before getting up to face the day.
I've been so tired these past few days that I wonder if I'm actually sick
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Science
Today's Adventures
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"when the trees bow down their heads, the wind is passing by"
Conditions were variable.
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Busy Saturday
After the meeting went with S and G as usual to the diner. Had my usual bacon, egg, and cheese on a toasted English muffin. Nothing but ice water to drink but I dropped a lemon slice in it.
Took the bus home, the 13 to the 12 to Parsons Blvd and walked from there.
Got into the Starsky and Hutch chat, and had a very good time there. My story A Twice-told Tale got complimented.
We talked til after 7:00 so I was late in Teaming the FWiB but we had a nice time. Talked a little over an hour.
During our conversation is was suddenly and horribly reminded that my non-drivers ID expires on my birthday and I need to go to DMV to upgrade it to an Enhanced ID. So after I got off the Teams with the FWiB I got on the computer to DMV and found to my dismay that the closest place I can get an appointment this month is Springfield Gardens. I made an appointment for the 18th, at 3:00.
Then I started digging out the ID I need for the enhanced ID. THe non-drivers ID is easy, also my passport, And fortunately I still have, carefully preserved, my original social security card. But proof of address was difficult as all my bills and bank statements come by email. I finally, after much digging, came up with my original lease and the most recent renewal.
So then it was pet feeding time so I fed the pets and started here.
Gratitude List:
1. The FWiB.
2. I made it to my meeting on time.
3. My meetings and the people there.
4. The Starsky and Hutch fandom.
5. Was able to get an appointment with DMV before my birthday.
6. Was able to find the lease.
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Also clear blue sky with a scant trace of cloud cover. But alas no flowers or greenery anywhere, unlike I'd found, albeit briefly, in Battery Park earlier in the week. (Green grass, and one bush. Spring! I thought. But alas, no, still winter.) So, aching for flowers and greenery - I purchased more cut flowers from the grocery store. Red Roses, and a bunch of purple and reddish purple flowers that I do not know the names of - one's a purple globe, the others look like various versions of purple and red baby's breath. I'd buy an actual plant - but I have a dreadful black thumb and kill them. The green thumb skipped me and landed on my brother. I have a black thumb. I can kill a cactus. And fake plants - I associate with dust.
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I did a few walks earlier in the week - when it was still warm outside, before we slid kicking and screaming back into winter. The first was up the pier to check out the cherry blossom festival (or the fake cherry blossom festival) on Pier 15. (It only it actually looked like that? It doesn't. Ah, the wonders of photo-shop and AI.) The second was around Battery City Park - the grass was actually green with flowers, purple flowers sprouting from a patch in the middle of it - helped no doubt by the fact that it was sealed off from people and dogs - and only geese, birds, insects and squirrels could frolic in the enclosure. People and dogs can do a lot of damage. Want to grow grass? Keep dogs and people away from it.

I also saw a green bush. And I thought - ah spring. Then it was in the thirties and forties the next day, and felt like 29 degrees, and I thought, no, still winter. Dang it.

The bush has green buds on it - but you have to enlarge the picture to see it. Also we now have an open pier that you can walk along to see the Statue of Liberty. When the Tall Boats Conference happens in July - that entire walkway should be open - so people can walk along and look at boats in the New York harbor.
The second walk was admittedly more productive than the first. I got stopped along the way by a Statue of Liberty Ticket Ferry scammer who was attempting to tell me that I was going the wrong way to the Statue of Liberty Ferry. I ignored him.
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Mother interrupted this entry with a phone call - to regale me with news from my brother. I rarely talk to him myself - and honestly, don't need to, she tells me everything he's doing, his daughter is doing, and his wife doing - his friends are doing - and various and sundry family members whether I want this information or not. (Well in snatches, she doesn't remember half of it - and it's the stuff that I'm usually curious about that she doesn't remember, while the stuff I was happier not knowing - she does).
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Television
* Scarpetta This is the series starring Nicole Kidman, Jamie Lee Curtis, Simon Baker, and Bobbie Carnvale (along with his son) adapted from the Patricia Cornwall - Kay Scarpetta mysteries - which I read in the 1990s and early 00s, and now have only vague memories of. I honestly don't remember them at all, just the characters names, and vaguely their relationships with each other? I don't remember the FBI agent, or the sister, just the cop Marino and Kay. That means, I can be fairly open-minded about the series, and won't be comparing it to the books at all. And I didn't. I honestly can't remember much if anything at all about the books - and I read most of them.
Patricia Cornwall served as a consultant on the series, and it has a woman showrunner and director.
I want to like it? But there's something off about it? It's really kind of busy and noisy? I think I want to calm it down a little or cut some of it out? ( Read more... )
It's gotten mixed reviews? The professional critics seem to like it, but the audience really doesn't.
* Grantchester - this is on Netflix and PBS Passport. I like it better than Scarpetta. It's a historical mystery series featuring a young jazz loving Vicar who solves murder mysteries in his parish with a local homicide detective during the 1950s. The Vicar is a former solider who served in the WWII and is struggling to get past it.
* The Pitt - still enjoying this, although it seems a bit subdued from last year, not sure why. I think the characters are a little less on edge - or the characters that are on edge, aren't the principal characters so it's less apparent? Not sure. It's not a bad thing, just a tonal shift.
* Count of Monte Cristo - almost done. It's subdued as well, and very understated. I'm hesistant to rec too heavily? I'm enjoying it - because I kind of want understated and restrained and subdued at the moment. I'm appreciating it. I don't why. Maybe I'm tired of the noise that seems to surround me constantly? All the ads, all the marketing, all the noise...I want subdued?
This may explain why Scarpetta isn't working for me, but the Pitt, Grantchester, and Monte Cristo are? I'm apparently in the mood for a more realistic touch and a less frenetic high gloss one?
Off to bed.
Urbana Free Library Seed Exchange
Today we visited the Urbana Free Library Seed Exchange. It's on the second floor. We rode the elevator up, and the display was big enough to be seen from where the elevator lets out. Seeds are stored in drawers, sorted by type. There are sections for flowers, herbs, and vegetables. Some of the really popular ones have their own drawer; others are grouped together. Unopened packets of commercial seed are filed as they are, for folks who want to know exactly what they're getting. Opened packets or homegrown seeds are put in envelopes by library staff. With wildflower and landrace seeds, especially mixes, you may get more surprises.
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Wildlife
Scientists discovered that nearly 90% of North America’s insects and arachnids have no conservation status—revealing a huge blind spot in protecting the tiny creatures that keep ecosystems running.
Spiders and insects may not be fan favorites, but they are vital to the health of ecosystems—and scientists barely know how they’re doing. Researchers found that nearly 90% of North America’s insect and arachnid species have no conservation status, leaving their fate largely unknown. Even more striking, most states don’t protect a single arachnid species. The study warns that these overlooked creatures are essential to planetary health and urgently need better monitoring and protection.
Let me be blunt here: the insect (arthropod) apocalypse is going to pull the rug out from under the biosphere. Plants are the producers for most of the ecosystem; many essential plants rely on insects for pollination or other services. And the next layer is invertebrates, mostly arthropods -- they break down dead material to a size that fungi can deal with, they pollinate, they move seeds, they feed most of the next level up such as birds, amphibians, etc. Spiders in particular keep the rest of that arthropod mess in check so we're not buried alive in flies, mosquitoes, and so on. They're some of the tiniest predators and they're absolutely vital.
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Creative Jam
What I Have Written
From My Prompts
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going to the tetris dispensary, need anything?
Thanks everyone for the kind comments.
Surprisingly, I slept fine -- well, I was surprised anyway. I don't remember any of my dreams.
I am very amused that two of the smartest people I know (one of whom is a psychotherapist!) told me to play Tetris.
There are studies on this, often in particular groups of people who might acquire PTSD like healthcare workers or combat veterans.
I'm good at games like that and I love them. I have not literal Tetris but a similar simple colorful block-positioning game on my phone, which I play all the time anyway -- usually as something to keep me busy enough to be able to listen to a podcast or sometimes to watch something on TV, or sometimes to tire my eyes out enough to let me go to sleep.
But now I can tell myself it's medicinal!
I had a nice day: walking to and from
angelofthenorth's this morning to help unload the van into her flat, enjoying the nice springlike weather for a change, and by the time I was home and showered it was almost time for said psychotherapist and her wife to visit, which is lovely as they are friends I rarely/never get to see, who were just nearby for the afternoon. I made dinner for us -- curry with sauce from a jar and added peppers and leftover chicken the others had last night. We're all pretty floppy, after those two had to take on tasks that were meant to be done yesterday by the two of us who were in Wales so much longer than we planned to be. But in a nice cozy way. No plans at all tomorrow, which I'm very much looking forward to.
poached eggs
https://dotat.at/@/2026-03-14-eggs.html
A few weeks ago I was enjoying a couple of boiled eggs
(in the shell, with plenty of salt and pepper, and buttery fingers of toast to dunk into the runny yolk)
and pondering how fiddly it is to cut off one end of the shell after boiling compared to eating a poached egg. And I was annoyed because (I thought) I didn't know how to poach eggs.
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Buffy and Firefly fandom news...
"Announcement: Sarah Michelle Gellar shared in a recent video that the project was not proceeding on Instagram.
The Project: The revival was to be titled Buffy the Vampire Slayer: New Sunnydale, with Gellar returning alongside new cast members.
Development Issues: Prior to this, reports suggested that differences over the number of episodes (18 vs. 8) and a need to focus on a new cast were causing delay."
ETA for links, which weren't available until now - clearly people were waiting for Gellar to announce it before doing it themselves?
https://pagesix.com/2026/03/14/entertainment/buffy-series-revival-new-sunnydale-not-moving-forward-at-hulu-sarah-michelle-gellar-reveals/
https://deadline.com/2026/03/buffy-reboot-dead-sarah-michelle-gellar-hulu-chloe-zhao-1236753736/
( my two cents for what it's worth... )
In other news? There's rumors they may be reviving Firefly - with the entire cast on board - or it's just a reunion at a convention. That's actually more likely - since Firefly got cancelled too soon, and the cast and crew and writers wanted to continue with it, and were all on board and happy with each other.
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The first time Gideon fell asleep in front of the toilet we moved him
to a comfy chair. From where he woke up still feeling sick and Jane
found him lying on the floor with a bucket he'd found and relocated
him back to the toilet, where he then fell asleep again.
I missed all of this because I had passed out in bed feeling rubbish. I did wake up to various noises, but each time I did I tried to open my eyelids, failed, and fell back to sleep again. Thankfully Jane isn't feeling as bad as me, and Sophia was off having a play date at the other end of the street.
So far nobody has actually thrown up. Fingers crossed that continues.
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Birdfeeding
I fed the birds. I've seen a mixed flock of sparrows and house finches.
I put out water for the birds.
3/14/26 -- I did a bit of work around the patio.
I am done for the night.
Books Received, March 7 — March 13

Seven books new to me: four fantasies, one science fantasy, one science fiction, and I am not sure how to categorize the Shepard. At least three are series books.
Books Received, March 7 — March 13
Which of these look interesting?
The Lion and the Deathless Dark by Carissa Broadbent (July 2026)
4 (13.3%)
Teach Me to Prey by Jenni Howell (December 2026)
0 (0.0%)
Heart of Thieves by Jessica S. Olson (September 2026)
0 (0.0%)
The Dagger in Vichy by Alastair Reynolds (October 2025)
12 (40.0%)
Crows and Silences by Lucius Shepard (December 2024)
10 (33.3%)
Engines of Reason by Adrian Tchaikovsky (September 2026)
13 (43.3%)
The Heart of the Reproach by Adrian Tchaikovsky (July 2025)
11 (36.7%)
Some other option (see comments)
0 (0.0%)
Cats!
22 (73.3%)
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Earlier Eden came and asked me for my car keys so her mother could drive my car to the library. That was about three hours ago I think, and she's still not back so I'm guessing she was not only going to the library. (Which is a mile away.) I'd been thinking of suggesting that she or my son in law drive the car occasionally since I so rarely need to go anywhere; this is the first time the car has left the driveway since we had that big snowfall towards the end of January. Now that winter seems to be waning I will probably start going places (random driving) just to keep the car in running condition.
I've been sleeping well for the last two or three nights but I feel tired today and I've got a slight headache which is annoying.
Yet another thing to worry about???
Goodness knows, some real weirdness is revealed in You Be the Judge in Guardian Saturday, but today's produces a theory which is entirely new to me -
But apart from all this hoohah about HYGIENE, I am rather taken with New Health Scare Theory:
Boiling water twice is a no-no for me – there is a change in quality and taste. My life had a certain drabness to it – I now attribute that to consuming poor-quality water for so long without realising.
This could be a whole new thing, couldn't it? Once-boiled water for vitality!
I was going to ask are they living in a log cabin or what in Ohio if the kitchen is so freezingly cold in the mornings they have to warm up the mugs so that they do not immediately chill the coffee but I see the issue is poor insulation.
Maybe they should do something about insulation rather than bicker over 'secondhand water'?